Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Last night my dad called to tell me the news that my great aunt Laverne passed away. This morning my thoughts are with her. Her kind smile that lit up a room, her marvelous hosting skills, and the pounds and pounds of lefse she provided for all the family gathers make me smile. When I pulled out my lefse from the freezer this morning, she filled my vision.
My clearest memory of her is when I was a teenager. Aunt Erma and Uncle Paul were in town visiting from California. I stood on the opposite side of the tall counter that surrounded Aunt LaVerne’s kitchen. Others were around and we were all talking. Aunt Erma started looking at my profile. Aunt LaVerne joined her in the scrutiny. The two aunts discussed my nose. Back and forth they went until they agreed that I had the Hedahl nose just like my grandfather’s. Well, I have always been a grandpa’s girl and this just clinched it. These two aunts were the best great aunts in the world. I grinned a little bigger and stood a little taller the rest of the visit.
The last time I saw Aunt LaVerne was bitter sweet. When her health began to decline, she went to live with her daughter in Virginia. I was fortunate to be able to take a weekend off of military training while in D.C. about four years ago and drove down to stay with them. Aunt LaVerne didn’t remember me. But that didn’t matter. I loved being in her presence. Her calm peaceful company draped over us as Bevin, William, and I chatted for hours on end.
Dear Lord, please bless my beautiful aunt. And give her a big hug from me.