Friday, October 12, 2012
Quote from Merlyn
Last night, as I was reading myself to sleep, I came across this quote. “The best thing for being sad,” replied Merlyn, beginning to puff and blow, “is to learn something. That is the only thing that never fails.” By T.H. White, The Once and Future King, page 171. The reason Merlyn says this is to help young Arthur get over his moping that his friend Kay is becoming a knight and leaving him behind. I think Merlyn is spot on.
When I medically retired from the military, losing my job, and needing to recuperate, I knew if I didn’t do something new I would become depressed or sad. I loved my job. I loved my life. I was being left behind by my colleagues. I didn’t want to be at home 24/7, but I also knew home is exactly where I needed to be to start feeling better and be able to be the mom I used to be before my health problems entered my life. I turned to music. Growing up, I loved choir and band. I played five different instruments. For years I had talked about learning the piano, so I found an instructor and started learning. Lessons not only taught me a new skill (well, not quite a skill) but it also gave me a place to go every week and a goal to work towards. I was pleasantly surprised to enjoy my first ten months of retirement. Learning can help us through the rough times.
Blessings to you all.